Here is a video with 69 foreplay ideas that you can use to make your own sexy bedroom games. Spice up your regular games with a few sensual activities and create your own naughty rules to make your adult play even more fun.
This video was created to help promote the new book my wife and I recently published on Amazon. Click Sex Games & Foreplay Ideas for Couples to order the book. It’s packed full of creative sex and foreplay ideas organized to mix in with any game you like to play. The book also includes lot’s of sex game ideas based on regular games to show you how you can create your own erotic games for couples from any game you enjoy playing. Discover how fun it can be to play naughty together especially when you make up your own rules to play dirty with.
Note that the book also includes the full rules and activity lists for the Frisky Foreplay erotic dice game. It’s available on Kindle as well but I recommend getting the physical book.
Rather than limiting your design to adult board games, take any opportunity to adapt the rules of regular games and transform them into erotic variations. For instance, although Boggle is considered a nice clean family game, dirty minded couples are bound to find some naughty words scrambled among the lettered cubes. It’s easy to imagine this as the start of some frisky fun. But how do you adjust the rules to include sexy activities and fun foreplay?
I originally designed a version of Boggle Foreplay for our Sexy Suggestions website. There is also an online scoring form with randomly generated foreplay ideas to perform at specific point levels. However, I wanted a new version that didn’t require much up front thinking or preparation. Also, I figured the new rules should follow the original game play as much as possible so that couples could switch to the erotic version quickly.
Since the game design would provide blog and marketing content, I also wanted to tie in the Frisky Foreplay ideas lists as an option for couples who had or wanted to buy the game. And of course, once the Dirty Boggle blog post was completed, a YouTube video to promote it was next on the list.
Try coming up with your own erotic twist for Boggle and then take a look at the video below.
Here is the script for the video:
In this video, you’ll discover a way to transform Boggle into a wild sex game for couples. This hot word game will have you thinking, talking and playing dirty to win. It combines erotic talk, stripping and lots of creative foreplay. All you need is a Boggle game and a dirty mind to start a night of naughty fun. You’ll arouse both your mind and body.
Start by agreeing on the sexual forfeits you’ll be playing for. This will help build erotic tension during the game.
Your objective is to find exciting words to express love, desire and lust for your partner. At the end of each round, earn bonus points by using one of your words in a sexual context. Ah … but you don’t just talk dirty, you need to play dirty too. When you find the right words, act out your sensual ideas together as foreplay. And they don’t have to all be dirty words either. You just need to use them in a dirty way.
Here are the sexy new rules in a bit more detail.
First player to 120 points wins. Score the same as in the standard rules but include bonus points for performing various erotic activities.
Secretly write down all words you find even regular words. You can score for both and, when it comes right down to it, you’ll be surprised how they can be used in a dirty way. Exclude all words that you both found in your individual lists.
All dirty words are allowed even if they are rude, crude and nasty. Slang terms for body parts, erogenous zones and sexual activities are acceptable.
When either of you score with a word that can be used in a sensual or sexual context, gain double points by using it in a descriptive, verbal request of your lover. They then need to perform it with or for you immediately. Only one request per player per turn.
If you can’t think of a foreplay idea using one of your words, your partner has the option to “steal” a word from your list. If they come up with a sexy activity for you to perform, you lose the points for that word. They don’t get extra points though – just more pleasure.
You can decline any activity if you’re not ready for it yet but your partner gets an extra 5 bonus points.
Note that only interesting words should be used to express sexually creative desires. Avoid using words that have no special meaning or that can be used in almost any sentence. Also, try to talk as seductively as you can while being very detailed and specific with your erotic desires. Instead of “do something to my toes”, try “remove your nylons and let me sensually lick and suck each of your toes”. You get to include a stripping action and foreplay in the same turn.
I hope you enjoy Thinking, Talking and Playing Dirty together with the one you love.
When designing adult games, you’ll want a large number of unique foreplay ideas to include. One creativity technique is to pick an erotic topic or a pleasure item and then brainstorm as many ideas as possible related to it. You’ll want to try for a minimum of 10 and then push toward 20, 30 or more. The first few will be relatively easy but are generally more obvious as well. Your really creative ideas come near the end of the process when you struggle with new ways of thinking.
As an example, to help market our Kinky Sex and Foreplay Ideas for Couples Game, I wanted to write a blog post with some creative sex tips and ideas. Since I recently read an article suggesting that many women hide their vibrators from their lovers, I challenged myself to come up with as many ways as I could for couples to use a vibrator together as foreplay. Why hide them from each other when they could easily be playing with them together. I even posed a sexy game couples could play that involved coming up with their own creative foreplay ideas using a vibrator.
And, what better way to promote the article and the game then a video on YouTube. So I wrote a quick script (included below), took some pictures of a few items on hand and whipped up a Keynote presentation. I recorded and cleaned up the voice over using Audacity. Final touches were done in iMovie. The script was intended to follow the Hook, Path and Persuasion format from the Video Boss course I took. However, I have also been reading Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff so decided to try out an Intrigue Frame technique as well. The video provides a light hearted look at how many couples view sex toys in their relationship.
Frisky Vibrations – Dilemma of a Dirty Girl and Her Sex Toy
Here is the script for the video:
She thought her vibrator was safe … hidden away in her underwear drawer.
No one would ever know her guilty secret pleasure … the ecstasy of masturbating with her battery powered sex toy.
She suspected something as soon as she got home. No wonder he looked so moody and mysterious. And then, when she went up to their bedroom, he stormed out to the garage to be alone with his tools.
How did he find it? Why did he look in there? It was buried under her panties. Guys don’t touch those girly things unless they’re trying to get into them right? But there it was tossed on her pillow in plain sight.
It was a gag gift but the thrilling sensations it created were amazing. Just seeing it made her clit throb with desire. But her mind swirled with conflicting emotions.
Was he pissed off that she pleasured herself alone? What was he thinking? That he wasn’t good enough in bed for her? Was she faking her orgasms with him because she needed a vibrator to get off? And those times when she wasn’t in the mood for sex was it because she already did it herself without him? Why would she need a sex toy when she had the real thing?
Oh, of course she loved the real thing too. Intercourse was great and oral sex was heavenly. But her vibrator was magical – even better than her own fingers.
Panicking, feelings of fear, guilt and shame tried to wash over her joyful memories of forbidden pleasure.
Something had to go … her vibrator induced orgasms or her man. But she wanted and needed both!
Was their relationship over? Could he forgive her?
What the hell was he doing in there anyway?
A kinky thought crossed her mind … was he secretly trying on her panties? What else could he be doing with her silky underwear while she was away? She rushed to opened her underwear drawer and discovered ….
A brand new sleek, sensual vibrator tied with a ribbon and a note … let’s play together tonight.
Visit FriskyForeplay.com/vibratorideas to discover more than 30 ways couples can play together with a vibrator. When you’re playing together tonight, challenge each other to come up with your own frisky foreplay ideas using a vibrator. If you can think of any more naughty ways to play, please leave a comment and share it with other couples so we can all have more fun and enjoy more pleasure together.